I don’t know if anyone feels this way from time to time,
But sometimes it is not who we are, but who we are not.
An example: I am a strong person, but I am not independent.
I am a reader, but not a book collector.
I am filial, but not a good daughter.
A teacher, but not a role model.
This sort of statements boggle with my mind the hardest, but worth thinking about.